Joan said that she likes seeing my face; I like seeing hers, too.
It was a beautiful day;
her blue eyes looked very bright, and I could see the light coming from her window touching her skin very lightly.
That morning,
I played to her an instrumental song by my favourite Australian band named Dirty Three.
She closed her eyes
to listen to it
carefully.
When I was listening to it, I was thinking of the waves. You know, when they come into the beach and then leave?
That motion.
That rhythm.
That is a great level of music,
Joan said to me.
Surprisingly, the song I played to her is called ‘Sea Above, Sky Below’ and it belongs to an album about the ocean.
A nurse came into Joan’s room to look at her leg while we were talking. She had had a recent fall and her wound had not healed properly.
You need to keep your feet up,
the nurse told Joan in a caring tone.
I could see that Joan was in pain,
but she managed to keep talking to me while her leg was being cleaned.
Shall we talk again next week? I said to her after two hours of conversation.
That would be lovely; talking to you reminds me
that
I am still part of the world,
she replied.
We waved and smiled at each other right before the screen went black.
This is part of a bigger project and conversation with Joan Nolan, an aged care resident based in Brisbane who I visited weekly for a couple years. Click here to find out more about it.